True love, to whom my heart is prey,
How dost thou hold me in thy sway,
That in each day I find no fault
But daily wait for love's assault.
~Pernette du Guillet
Love demands certain things as a right...
Stevenson, , "Chapter XIX: Selden Takes an Inventory," 1922
Your heart knows true love when it finds it, our job is to look until it finds us.